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Parable of the Building of the Wall

Imagine you and your spouse building a brick wall together. One of you may primarily be the initiator, while the other will likely primarily be a helper.

What would it be like if one or the other of you refused to do his or her part? Instead, he/she either does nothing or criticizes everything his/her spouse is trying to build. Worse yet, imagine while one’s back is turned, the other knocking down the bricks and rocks that he/she had built up. In either case, the wall doesn’t progress and the conflict between husband and wife continually escalates. Eventually, the project is completely neglected. From time to time he/she comes and looks wistfully at that section of the wall but the weeds have grown and the tools have rusted. All hope of ever building anything is lost.

This scenario is repeated over and over in most struggling marriages. A husband tries to build godly headship in the home but his wife opposes or undermines him. A wife tries to initiate biblical parenting, but he won’t get involved. He tries to initiate sexual intimacy and she won’t respond. She wants deeper communication but he refuses to engage. And so it goes.

When was the last time you reflected on the „marriage wall” you’re building together? Are the roles clear? Is there passivity, undermining, or obstruction going on? Has stubbornness brought you to an impasse? If so, what needs to happen to resolve the issues and start building as partners again?

(From Biblical Answers for Struggling Marriages:31 Lessons for Marriage at an Impasse)

(source: Family Forum Japan –

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Scris de pe 4 Martie 2014 în Literatură, Meditații


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1. Turn off the TV. The values most programs promote are destructive to your family.

2. Sit down to eat together. Numerous studies demonstrate that eating meals together keeps kids from high risk behavior.

3. Tell your spouse you love him/her, and share three things you admire and appreciate about him/her. Affirmation builds marriage like few other things (It works for kids too).

4. Share non-sexual touch with each family member. Give a hand, foot, or neck massage, give a hug, squeeze a hand, or comb someone’s hair. Younger kids love to wrestle too. We all need proper physical affection.

5. Take a few minutes to read God’s Word and pray together. Your family needs God’s grace, God’s truth, and God’s blessing more than anything else.

(source: Family Forum Japan)

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Scris de pe 11 Februarie 2014 în Muzica


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Cea mai frumoasă reclamă

Poate că sunt un sentimentalist… poate că sunt romantic… poate că am și o trăsătură melancolică… poate că sunt poet… 🙂  dar acum am revăzut această minunată reclamă la centura de siguranță, care mai spune și altceva în afară de protecția din timpul șofatului…

…este protecția pe care o oferă familia !

În acest început de an, îmi doresc pentru 2012 (și nu numai) ca acest lucru să se îmbunătățească în viața mea și a voastră și să fim binecuvântați cu acea centură unică, potrivită fiecărui suflet în parte ! Să fim înconjurați de dragoste, de familie, de cei dragi și de puterea de a înainta alături de ei !

Un an nou fericit și cu multe împliniri !!

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Scris de pe 2 Ianuarie 2012 în În jurul nostru, Meditații


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